Growing up I pledged allegiance to my flag, respected my government and gave it little thought. It wasn't until 9/11 happened and I moved away that I began to compare and contrast my government to others.

For example, in Malta, a small and compact island in the middle of the med, the people are engaged with their government. They have a deeply intimate relationship with their politicians, often you find the entire country votes each and every time an election or referendum arrives, dictating they do just that. It's small; it's a place and space of mind where democracy can breathe and live healthily out in the open.
When we lived in Paris and had family living in the south, the culture and country in general were deeply keen on good argument about policy debate. The French are chatty, engaged and feisty and I often got the sense their government respected the will of the people, an emotional group of people. They care. 
In Italy, where life is far more complicated, it felt as if the people disregarded their central government, but did participate heavily in both regional politics and debate. It is a chaotic place when seen from outside but from within, not so much. Italians know how the game is played, they're familiar with the players are and respect them locally, not so much as a nation. The left and south are both very Italian in culture but distinctly different in production and attitude.